OK I FOUND IT! LOL
Buildm, I can absolutely relate to your problem, it's frustraiting, I've got the Same Model and year as you and guess what, Been through 3 Batteries and 3 EHC's. Since my Warantee is up, I don't know what is going to happen if I loose another EHC, I'd say that I'd take a similar approuch as you only Minus the BBB.
What you have to keep in mind here, although BDM does probably scan though this site, I've seen many posts on here that were derogatory in nature and not at all flattering to the product, however, pissing on a product that 90% of the members here own and love is probably not the best way to gain friends or get probems resolved. Suffice to say that you go to any site, Harley, Honda etc etc and you'll see your product bashing, I don't think BDM's product is any better or worse then any of the other Manufacturers, however, I Have seen them go way above the others in the customer service department.
If I had to guess, your problem was coincidently solved with the threat of the BBB, rather, you finally got to someone who understood your situation, therefore was able to make things happen, Point Being, if you don't get the answers you want from somene at BDM, Move it up the line within BDM until you do.
Chopchop, If your offended by FNG, then you probably are one, I'd guess you have either no military, or Biker Background for that matter, because thats as common as FTW, DILLIGAS, DILLIGAF, etc etc etc. If ya Need some help with the definitions, PM me, I'll tell you to STFU and make Sure your GTG