Phantom Pads sells a really nice Gel stick on seat. If you plan on doing a lot of 2 up, take a real hard look at your old lady. If she's the adventurous type who likes to wrap her legs around you when she rides, it should be fine. If she's scared of bugs and worries about breaking her nails all the time, you will have issues down the road. This could work in your favour if you're the type that likes alone time. If your the p-whipped type that drags your chick with you everywhere you go, get a softail. I've got a little bit of time on a ridgeback, and I'd say it ain't bad at all on the highway, but it gets a bit bumpy if the roads are bad, especially around town. Your best bet is to take a test ride with her on the back!