Im sorry to hear all that, it really sucks. It's funny, I abuse the shit out of my engine, never broke it in, beat the hell out of it when it's cold, run super short pipes with no baffles, and ran it with no air filter and an open intake for a year. When I blew a head gasket last year at around 18k miles I expected the worst when I opened it up. Instead everything looked great, other than some very minor scratches on the cylinder walls, I'm assuming came from shit getting sucked into the intake. I cleaned everything up, lapped the valves, and put it all back together with new rings.