So sorry to here about your brother finn. Wishing a quick recoveryRay,
I completely understand the, 'not being able to see him' thing. My brother fell of a roof on Monday and we had to take hom to the local trauma unit. He fractured his hip in two place, broke his collarbone and fucked up his ribs. I stayed with him until they moved him into ICU (about 5 hours) and was not able to go back to see him after that, until I picked him up yesterday. It's just not an easy thing to see anyone, let alone a brother, in pain and not be able to do anything to help him. Gives me chills just thinking about it now. God Bless to both of you. You are in my prayers.

