Just give it up already... Gezz...
No one is going to feel sorry for you because the Harley guys don't like your Big Dog... And they are not envious either I'm sorry to say... I have both and have had Harley type bikes all my life and now have a BD in the garage as well as a Fat Boy and a YAMAHA Road Star.
It's the
attitude you have they don't like not the bike, like
"look at my $40k beautiful bike don't ya wish you had one too" that gets their dander up. You're not special because you have a Big Dog. You're just stupid enough to think so.
Get over it and realize there are many different types of bikes out there for different types of people and not everyone is going to agree on which is the "best" bike.
Right now my Yamaha Road Star ( $7k invested) in my opinion is TWICE the bike of the Big Dog or the Harley Fat Boy but that is just my opinion. Ya, the Harley guys laugh and the Big Dog guys laugh but in the end it's what makes ME happy to ride and what makes ME feel good on it and what will bring MY ass back at the end of the day so go cry in your beer and just get over it..... or buy a few bikes and ride the one everyone likes...
The BEST bike I have ever owned.... (and I have built many and have been riding for 50 years now) Unlike the Big Dog and Fat Boy it starts every time, runs all day long, has 94 HP, 102 CI, can take a 15 mph curve at 45 mph, is smooth and I never have to work on it unless I want to customize it. Does 85 mph in 4th gear (it has 5 gears). Look at the Road Star forum and you will NEVER see a "it won't start" or "It won't run" or "it is leaking oil" thread.... More than I can say for this forum... and you can build the RS into a chopper too...
So stick with your BD dream and put up with the ECh problems, bearing problems, tranny problems, front end problems, wheel bearing problems, control problems and such but know the rest of the biker community knows. Ya, these are beautiful bikes but not without their problems and you can buy mine for 10k now....